Funny, I've a friend whose mentality says it all. He states....'I wouldn't bowl in a league where the shot is tough. Why waste my money on the frustration. Give me an easy shot and I'm happy. Most league members aren't only frustrated with the low scoring conditions,but can't justify paying increasing dues year after year to subject themselves to the madness.'
You factor in the increasing costs (here in NY, dues range from 25-30 per night on the avg.), difficult scoring conditions and conceited,self worshiping, egomaniacs... well, there is your QUITTER! Yet, this very same individual will spend money at a tournament yet won't venture beyond his local house when it come to leagues.
In all honesty, many people don't really take bowling seriously. in other words, trying to overcome conditions isn't the challenge,but the case of becoming 'one of the respected' amongst locals is the hilight of their accomplishments.
I also know of many who are mega-talented yet lack drive because it's too easy for them. They're respected because of their abilities, but lack respect for the game.
I remember when I first started bowling. It seemed like I was going to be stuck at 150 avg. forever. Sorta like you felt when you reached a certain height and felt like you stopped growning
Anyways, I practiced and practiced. Even taped Pro Bowlers Tour that aired on TV Saturdays. After watching the telecast, I'd always grab my stuff and run to the lanes.
Just how many people share the same enthusiasm about the game today? I think they are few and far between. The 'machismo' factor will always exist and will always cause a divide where higher avg. bowlers think they're too good to be associated with lower average bowlers. I didn't 'seek' to belong, but had some 'old school' bowlers help me out here and there. Now it's every bowler for himself, 'F' everyone else! Totally demoralizing...
Sorry for the rant....
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"Minds are like parachutes - they only function when open!"
Edited on 3/14/2007 11:36 AM