Going to give it till tomorrow before involving doctors.
As for puncturing with a needle. I have done that sometimes in the past, with some success, but usually more tempted to break the skin with a needle when the area with the pus is more pronounced. In those cases, the motivation and expectation of seeing the pus released (and the pressure and pain along with it) is stronger than my reluctance to feel the pain of the pin.
At this point, I think I waited too long maybe. Thursday, the inflamed area was much worse, but also easier to isolate. Today, though, it's diminished and spread out some and it's actually less obvious where to poke it. So, would take a pretty strong penetration with pin (I think) to open it up.
I think i'll wait and see what it looks like tomorrow .... after more soaking today... and then decide what to do.
Course...part of the reason I dont soak it as much as I should is cause I am always bowling or typing at a keyboard.
Regardless... I do appreciate the suggestions and am listening. Just undecided at the moment.