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lilpossum1

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Extreme burn out
« on: February 22, 2020, 07:20:18 PM »
In tune with how these threads always turn at the end of the season, it is time to start the burn out threads. I would like opinions on what you would all do in my situation. Due to work, I have only been able to bowl every other week. Most of that is elective overtime because I would rather work than bowl on this, well, I’m not going to dignify it enough to put it in the same category as a house shot. Weak equipment scoots on the carry down we start with and doesn’t get into a roll, strong equipment reads the dry heads and doesn’t push to the right, mid range is all buckets and corner pins. Flippy equipment is unpredictable. Anyway, I have already turned over control of the summer league in this house to someone else. I’ve told my team I’m not bowling next year or this summer. My question is should I just quit completely until I miss it again, should I just practice at different houses that have good shots? Should I sub occasionally at different houses? What are the thoughts of those of you that have been burnt out?

 

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Re: Extreme burn out
« Reply #1 on: February 22, 2020, 07:26:57 PM »
Quit with that type of attitude and unwillingness to try to get better on something you feel you are too good for,I am sure you are a treat to bowl with.

lilpossum1

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Re: Extreme burn out
« Reply #2 on: February 22, 2020, 07:33:55 PM »
Quit with that type of attitude and unwillingness to try to get better on something you feel you are too good for,I am sure you are a treat to bowl with.

I appreciate the sarcasm. I actually am a treat to bowl with. Only one person on the league I don’t get along with splendidly, and that is because he is a prick that needs an attitude adjustment. I am not unwilling to get better. In fact, I have tried like hell to get better, and try to find anything that will work in this house. I have yet to find anyone that can do anything with any consistency. I am not the problem. Believe me.

carlos

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Re: Extreme burn out
« Reply #3 on: February 22, 2020, 10:46:51 PM »
Your better off going to another bowling alley. The place I use to bowl each week there was a different shot and issues with the lanes breaking down. When there was a tournament coming up our leagues were the lab rats for the shot. We all strive to get better but when the bowling establishment puts out inconsistent shots week after week it get old. I left the place and haven't looked back.

CoorZero

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Re: Extreme burn out
« Reply #4 on: February 22, 2020, 11:33:07 PM »
Sounds just like a house I bowl at, it's been that way all season long. It won't get better either since it's closing at the end of the season. Hopefully they don't run out of oil before then...

Hasn't been a bad thing though. I've had fun playing with different surfaces/polishes on new and old equipment trying to find something that works. Just about found it with a Diva XOXO and then I see it's starting to crack out from the fingers to the pin. :(

Anyways, I would sub at another house if it's getting to you that much. Keeps you in the game and practiced without a big commitment. For me I find it hard to just practice and not compete in some form but if that works for you it's even better. No commitment at all and all the time away you need until the itch comes again.

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Re: Extreme burn out
« Reply #5 on: February 22, 2020, 11:51:03 PM »
I used to bowl at a place where that could fit the description of what you laid out for your house.  It was a small place in a small town, and the owner just didn't give a damn any more and oiled the lanes once, maybe twice a week.  after a couple seasons of this, my entire team felt burned out.  we moved to a different house a couple towns over; and it was awesome.  a clean place, an owner that cared, lanes oiled before league, no open play allowed once oiled for league.  an actual proshop with stock of supplies. 

the moved cured my team of the burn out. 

Only you know how burned out you are; but given the situation you describe a move to a different center could help.   I would suggest you practice at different centers to A) see the difference and B) Judge if the current house is the problem.

If you have fun at the new place; bowl league there.  if you still feel like its a chore or otherwise don't have fun; take a season or 2 or 3 off.
« Last Edit: February 22, 2020, 11:52:37 PM by SG17 »

lilpossum1

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Re: Extreme burn out
« Reply #6 on: February 23, 2020, 08:26:27 AM »
Thank you all for the valuable input. I don’t know if this will make sense, but I honestly feel like the shot here is not scorable without a hefty dose of luck. I go to other houses and I am able to relax and roll the ball. Everything frees up. I bowled on a sport shot of some sort at another house, not sure what the pattern was, maybe nationals from last year, but I scored better on it than I have any night but one at this house. I may take a few months off at the end of league, practice a bit, then start subbing. I was wary about jumping back in too quickly and not letting the burn out fade away

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Re: Extreme burn out
« Reply #7 on: February 23, 2020, 05:07:27 PM »
Frustration with the conditions that you continually see at your main house is a great reason to go practice elsewhere, and if it makes you enjoy it more, change where you bowl league.

I see burnout more from people who bowl too much, life gets way out of balance, and the desire to bowl starts to leave.  Bowling has to be fun.  We work hard trying to earn a living, we might have family responsibilities that need our time, and life can get stressful at times trying to make it all fit together. 

If bowling adds to our stress then we will not be as effective as we could be when it's our diversion from the stresses of life.  So whatever it takes, you gotta find a way to make bowling fun again. 

Sometimes a layoff helps us appreciate things, sometimes a change in where you bowl, or even who you bowl with...  You can still be a top notch bowler and still have fun with it.  In fact the two are usually hand in hand.  Best to you going forward.