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DonSVO

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AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« on: March 27, 2007, 03:12:39 PM »
Basically, he agreed to sell me a ball for $60, and comes back trying to haggle $5 more bucks out of my wallet not an hour later saying someone ofered $5 more after he agreed to sell it to me.

He has a thread in the for sale forum with several balls. I have wanted to try out a radical inferno for a while, he had one in 14#, so I offered to buy it. Now, the thread has been relatively stagnant for some time, so I made an offer for his asking price, $50.00 US, shipped. He wanted $60 total to cover shipping and I said sure, what's your paypal address. He says great, my address is blahblablah... not an HOUR LATER, he sends me some BS PM starting off saying I hadn't paid him yet (SORRY BUD, SOME OF US ARE AT WORK AT NOON ON TUESDAY!) and someone offered to pay $65 for it shipped. 5 bucks more.

Come on, dude. no one posted crap about the ball in SOME TIME, I agree to buy it at $60, then all the sudden you get a buyer for *gasp* $15 shipping and the $50 for the ball? If you're willing to throw this kind of BS in my face for $5... that you are willing to renig on a sale for FIVE FREAKING DOLLARS... you have some ethical issues to work out.

I hope whoever is sending you the extra $5 is happy with the ball. I will just be content to post the entire contents of our PMs, with time stamps, showing how much of a bum you are.

MY FIRST PM --------------------

Will you do $50 shipped to 76010? If so, I will paypal you as soon as you say yes.

jrgriff759 --------------------- 3/26/2007 9:12:19 PM

Its going to cost me about $15 to ship to you in Texas from NY. The best I can do is like $60 shipped.

Let me know if you are still interested. Thanks for the reply.

MY REPLY -----------------------

done deal. $60? what's your paypal address?

jrgriff759 --------------------- 3/27/2007 11:10:29 AM

Sounds good to me......... my paypal address is jalchowiak@rochester.rr.com

jrgriff759 --------------------- 3/27/2007 12:06:47 PM

I see you haven't sent over the paypal stuff yet......

I just got offered $65 shipped..........I know you offered $60 first.......If you want to match the offer.....I will accept yours....if you don't want to pay the $65 shipped, I am going to have to take the other offer.......and I appreciate your interest in the ball.
Thanks.

   Jeff

MY REPLY ---------------------

Through PMs, you have already sold it to me for $60. I am not going to 'match' the price. Consider the deal off, and I will be posting this and our other PMs in the buyer/seller feedback forum as well as the Brunswick forum.

Thanks for your interest in selling me the ball.
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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #1 on: March 28, 2007, 07:03:39 AM »
thats for sure BS.. He should have put the ball on ebay if he wanted to run the sale of the ball as an auction..

He agrred to sell it for $60 and should have followed thru with the deal..

I would agree, avoid that seller at all costs..
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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #2 on: March 28, 2007, 04:44:09 PM »
Thanks for the info Don!!  Another person to make sure we all avoid.
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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #3 on: March 28, 2007, 05:09:18 PM »
Great post Don. We need to weed out the deadwood on this site. At least you didn't lose any money on the deal. Just time and aggravation. Better off calling the deal off before your're left like this.

http://www.ballreviews.com/Forum/Replies.asp?TopicID=157865&ForumID=71&CategoryID=5

I think this deserves a TTT.
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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #4 on: March 28, 2007, 05:24:45 PM »
He is out there still trying to sale those balls.. He did a ttt just a few minutes ago..
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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #5 on: March 29, 2007, 10:24:44 AM »
Looks like he's decided to put his tail between his leg and delete the post.  I can't find it.
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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #6 on: March 29, 2007, 01:22:20 PM »
Yes, I did delete my post.  I didn't want to come on here and try to explain myself but since the topic is "Avoid Jrgriff759 like the plague" I just wanted to put up my side here.  If no one will be interested in any of my stuff in the future becuz of this, I will have to live with my decision.

DonSVO was right, the post was very old on ballreviews.  I hadn't gotten much interest in the balls on here.  But it's not like this is the only place I will try to sell my used stuff.  

I had local person who was interested in the ball a few weeks ago and I was talking to him after DonSVO had made me an offer and he offered me more than DonSVO.  I hadn't recieved any money from DonSVO.  I understand that he had messaged me, but how do I know that his circumstances didn't change.  I have had a few people in the past who are interested and say I will send money and then back out.  

I thought I was doing the right thing by telling my local guy that I sort of had a deal with someone else 1st and if he didn't want to pay the same as he was offering then I would sell it to him.  Obviously, I came across in the wrong way.  But I thought if I messaged him back and said the deal was off, then "this type of post" would be put up.  

I'm sorry for wanting to make the most money I can back on a ball, especially when you pay $175 to begin with. And from DonSVO's post, it wasn't just 5 bucks....I didn't have to ship anything so really I'd be getting more than that.  I know that doesn't make DonSVO better or help my cause in the future.  I probably should have been more honest with DonSVO and told him about the local guy or waited until I got a firm answer from the person here.

I understand DonSVO is very upset and I'm sorry it is nothing personal.  He seemed very nice in his messages.  I just did what was best for me.

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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #7 on: March 29, 2007, 01:32:44 PM »
MY BAD...reread your post
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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #8 on: March 29, 2007, 01:39:40 PM »
jrgriff759, I respect your decision coming onto this tread and telling your side of the story. Some people will go hide back under the rock the crawled out from.

I am not involved in this deal but when someone makes a deal, they should abide by it. Sounds like the deal was done. You could have pleaded with DonSVO to let you out of the deal because you did find someone who would pay higher. It would have been DonSVO's choice at that time to let you sell to someone else. I'm sure if you told DonSVO in a polite way that you really needed the money and blah, blah, blah, he would have said ok.
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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #9 on: March 29, 2007, 02:01:44 PM »
I too will give you credit for coming back here and posting your side of the story.

If you take the time to ask a little about a user, you will find that some people are on the up and up.  I too have made deals on here but wasn't able to make a paypal payment until later on.  Sometimes that's just how it works out.  But with the majority of the good users, you aren't going to have that issue.  If one says they'll buy it, it's pretty much a done deal.

And the better way to have done this, if you were to go about it so it favored Don, would have been to tell the local person that he's got first dibs on the ball if Don didn't pay.

I sold 5 Track balls here and waited for payment.  I promised the others that asked about them that they were in line if the first person didn't pay....regardless of what they were going to give me.
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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #10 on: March 29, 2007, 07:16:53 PM »
Come on here or not telling what happened from your side, "YOU" accepted a offer and should of stood by that. A persons word is worth a whole lot more then $5.00 !!!!!!!!!!


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Yes, I did delete my post.  I didn't want to come on here and try to explain myself but since the topic is "Avoid Jrgriff759 like the plague" I just wanted to put up my side here.  If no one will be interested in any of my stuff in the future becuz of this, I will have to live with my decision.

DonSVO was right, the post was very old on ballreviews.  I hadn't gotten much interest in the balls on here.  But it's not like this is the only place I will try to sell my used stuff.  

I had local person who was interested in the ball a few weeks ago and I was talking to him after DonSVO had made me an offer and he offered me more than DonSVO.  I hadn't recieved any money from DonSVO.  I understand that he had messaged me, but how do I know that his circumstances didn't change.  I have had a few people in the past who are interested and say I will send money and then back out.  

I thought I was doing the right thing by telling my local guy that I sort of had a deal with someone else 1st and if he didn't want to pay the same as he was offering then I would sell it to him.  Obviously, I came across in the wrong way.  But I thought if I messaged him back and said the deal was off, then "this type of post" would be put up.  

I'm sorry for wanting to make the most money I can back on a ball, especially when you pay $175 to begin with. And from DonSVO's post, it wasn't just 5 bucks....I didn't have to ship anything so really I'd be getting more than that.  I know that doesn't make DonSVO better or help my cause in the future.  I probably should have been more honest with DonSVO and told him about the local guy or waited until I got a firm answer from the person here.

I understand DonSVO is very upset and I'm sorry it is nothing personal.  He seemed very nice in his messages.  I just did what was best for me.

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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #11 on: March 29, 2007, 07:26:16 PM »
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Come on here or not telling what happened from your side, "YOU" accepted a offer and should of stood by that. A persons word is worth a whole lot more then $5.00 !!!!!!!!!!






I agree.  Jeff sounds like a scum bag who's lying to someone to get an additional $5.00.  

Once you say it's sold, it's sold.  You shouldn't screw with someone.  And for $5.00 more dollars?  Seriously?

I'll never do business with this guy as he's untrustworthy.  I can only imagine what the ball's going to look like when it arrives.

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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #12 on: March 29, 2007, 07:39:03 PM »
Going back on a deal for an extra $5...that is pretty low.  I mean, not everyone can put the payment through in an hour.

I'd never deal with someone that way....nor would I ever deal with this guy.
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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #13 on: March 30, 2007, 11:12:09 AM »
jrgriff759, sometimes you have to admit you made a mistake, which you obviously did in this case.  There is no sense justifying your case about the local guy and making more off the ball, etc.  That is not the point - the point is you agreed to sell to donsvo for $60 shipped.  Once you did that anything less than executing on that transaction, and completing the ball sale, was unethical.  You did the right thing coming back on and trying to explain yourself, but didnt follow through by making excuses why you pulled the rug from under donsvo.  Admit you were wrong and do better next time.  By doing the right thing next time you can build your image back up.
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Re: AVOID JRGRIFF759 LIKE THE PLAGUE!!!
« Reply #14 on: March 30, 2007, 11:19:10 AM »
All he did was come on here and say he did was "right for him"... He obviously thinks that was an acceptable thing to do.. IMO, that still does not make things right..  

The bottom line is this. If thats how he does business, I will not deal with him, thats for sure..
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