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Game In a BoxLC

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A problem of wanting too much
« on: October 12, 2003, 07:55:00 AM »
I have a problem when it comes to my bowling game, its wanting too much. Everyone always comments and says how nice of a physical game i have, how smooth and crisp i am and how i throw alot of ball. But i always want more, because of this i am always trying new things or doing things to make myself better, changing mechanics. Even when i'm bowling i will make a perfect shot and try to make a better one the next shot, and alot of times it costs me.

I am well known as throwing too good of shots when i need them. When i get up and need a shot to win or something, i end up hitting the ball harder than i usually do, slicing my target and breakpoint, but because of the higher rev rate, it doesn't always do what i want it to.

How do i get myself to just accept what i do with a bowling ball and let it be, it is tough for me to just let my physical game sit idle i always jump to try something new which could make me better instead of perfecting the physical game i have.

any suggestions or comments?
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Re: A problem of wanting too much
« Reply #1 on: October 12, 2003, 11:48:43 PM »
Eh, I do the same thing, can't help you.  It's worse when you're actually having problems too.  I also do the over-hitting thing.  I start ripping on a ball and when it's looking so nice, I always want more.  I've been bowling terrible this year, mostly because I'm trying to stay away from looking like a house bowler and just playing the easy line to score.  I need to start doing that and just work on things in practice, but spraying and praying really hacks me off, and I don't want to lower myself to that level.  I can imagine you're a perfectionist and get too hard on yourself, which is especially why most of your comments and suggestions to me have worked so well.  I'd rather play a line laying it down at 38, between 4th and 5th arrow, never letting it out past 13 or 14, or some other extreme line that lets me gratify my hunger for better shots and mind-numbing accuracy, but the fact of the matter is that most of that isn't really needed.  Watching the pros taught me one thing.  They're blind to everything but scoring.  A ball is a ball, boards are boards, arrows are arrows.  There's nothing special to them about any certain ball (although they may have favorites), nothing special about playing 2 board all the way down or playing 5th arrow on the left lane and 1st arrow on the right lane (which I saw somebody do painfully well on Friday) and nothing special about anything else.  If the pins don't go down, it doesn't matter.  Of course this is probably insulting your intelligence, but sometimes it helps to be reminded and have things beat into your head, I know I could use that sometimes.  And of course you know if I'd have said what you just did, you'd have told me that no shot is too good if you screw up a part of it.  We'd both throw it like Robert Smith if we could, I'm sure, but maybe your game isn't built for that, I know mine isn't.  I don't think there's any cure for this except to try to beat into your head that the X's are all that matter.  I know that's the deal, and I still haven't talked myself into just being a house bowler for the time being.  I don't want to start leaving flat stuff, there's nothing I hate worse than throwing a shot and knowing off my hand it has no chance.  At least with more revs you know you'll blow the pins around a bit more.
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Re: A problem of wanting too much
« Reply #2 on: October 12, 2003, 11:50:29 PM »
Sounds as if you are trying to hard.  Step back and just let it go.  

If you ever listen to stories of the greatest athletes ever you will find the one thing that makes them better than the rest is a calm cool nature.  Joe Montana on his way to score a winning touchdown with only seconds left in the superbowl was in the huddle and said "Hey look it's Huey Lewis",  other stories where people whistle or tell jokes to keep them from thinking of what is really necessary.

One thing you can try is to set up the situation you have trouble with and then apply as much pressure on yourself and then work on relaxing and stroking the shot.  For example.  10 strikes in a row and you are on the 11th ball and you have to make the next one count.  See how well you can relax and stroke the ball.  Keep your breathing regular and your heart under control and execute the shot.  Another thing that may help is to have someone time you from the time you pick up your ball and set up to delivery.  You should have an average time.  On most crucial shots people take to long and over analyze this leads to problems.  If you find yourself taking to long to take the shot then back off and restart your routine.  

I hope this helps and if it does let me know, if it doesn't then well you gave it a shot.
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Re: A problem of wanting too much
« Reply #3 on: October 12, 2003, 11:54:45 PM »
what makes me the most mad is like on thursday, i can get lined up to literally have 10 boards of area at the breakpoint, maybe more. All i have to do is get it out, 17 to anywere left. It sickens me to do it but it works. When i try to tighten it up, be accurate and consistant i dont score, but when i just play wall i score and ive shot 700 the last 3 weeks there. I can tighten up and be accurate on tough conditions and i score, but for leagues i just end up making myself mad and it makes me sick to do it. But i got sick of shootin 620 making quality shots

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It isnt i'm hard on myself, i could shoot 580 and iwont be mad, im pretty laid back in that respect. Its like i overconcentrate when i need a strike. Where saying i'm bowling on a wall im just throwing it out, maybe now n then rearing up, maybe rotating early, but doing well. Suddenly i need a shot, and everything is executed perfectly, with better rotation, but i'm not lined up for that, i'm lined up to basically play splatter bowling. I'm gunna try what you said about just seeing how well i can stroke the ball, i'll let you know the results, any other help is appreciated as well
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Re: A problem of wanting too much
« Reply #4 on: October 13, 2003, 02:16:33 AM »
If you truly have that much area then you are very lucky indeed.  What you may want to do in practice is to learn to focus on a smaller target and refine your sense of touch and feel.  You may be relaxed when you know you can spray the lanes.  Know you need to be just as relaxed at spliting boards.  Try redifining your area to a couple boards both at the arrows and at the breakpoint and see if you can do that consistently in practice.  Don't count the strikes or rely on the score but count how many times you have hit both areas when you wanted to.  Once you are confident about hitting those areas then you will be much more relaxed when you need to hit a small area
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Re: A problem of wanting too much
« Reply #5 on: October 13, 2003, 08:52:04 PM »
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When I am stepping on the approach and know I need this shot to help me have a good game or help team win, I think about making love to my wife. Try it!


I don't know if this would work...after all, I don't think he knows what your wife looks like.  
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