I use the Lind's Exxxtras and have for years. This is actually my second pair, but I still use the originals too. I bought the second, did not like the slide so I sent them up to Wisconsin. Jeff Lind called me himself and discussed my slide concerns, recommended a sole for the conditions I was looking for and put a new sole on my shoe. That is service you can not get anywhere else but Linds.
I also own a pair of Dexter SST5's that I have glued back together twice and they have less than 100 games on them. That is the problem with Dexters I have seen and heard. Expect to buy a new pair once a year, every other if you are lucky and don't bowl much.
The Tour Ultra's I have not heard anything bad on either. Everyone I know loves them and they have the fully adjustable soles. And yes that is a big deal if you bowl in mulitple centers and tournaments. If you only bowl in one house and league, probably not that big a deal.